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Once a blue always a blue?
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My son is four and has just started school. I have also started taking him to play football on a Saturday morning for the local boys team.
This morning, we were having a kick around with a few of the other lads and one of them had his older brother aged seven with him, who had the full Everton trackie on. I asked him who his favourite player was, expecting a Cahill or Arteta reply but instead he replied "Drogba!" He then went on to explain that his favourite team was Chelsea and Everton was actually his third favourite.
I asked him who his second favourite side was and he replied "the one who play in light blue, I can't remember their name". I was gob-smacked to be honest. I then turned to my son and said who is your favourite player. He replied "the one with the bouffey hair, Fellani but not in that pink kit — it is rubbish." I said to him, "Do you like any other teams?" and he said, "No, I love Everton and don't like anyone else."
I have never felt so proud!
The point is, however, that when I was little my Dad supported Everton and as a result so did I. My kids support Everton because I do. I believe the maxim that you are born a blue. I have never considered supporting anyone else and don't expect my kids to ever support anyone else.
So why do kids support Chelsea or that team in light blue now?
Chris Leyland, Posted 03/10/2009 at 21:33:57
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Anyway, was your lad at FJSC? — mine started a few weeks back as well and is loving it.
Whether we like it or not, and whether it is correct or not, the media will choose to focus on a team who have spent hundreds of millions on high profile, ready made superstars rather than focus on a team slowly building year on year by spending within their means.
The important thing for me is the calibre of fans that this generates. I was brought up in a family of blues to love Everton. As such, no matter who plays in the team, which league we play in, etc, I will passionately support Everton. It is an unbreakable bond.
Can you say the same for those people who "support" Chelsea, Man City as a result of their spending? How many Leeds and Newcastle fans do you hear about these days?
One Evertonian..........
Typical example of us being ’fed’ again was last night’s Match of the Day, who just HAD TO SHOW an immensely edited account (due to Sky having it live no doubt) of the Man U/Sunderland game FIRST on the programme.
Last week the live League Cup game was again Utd v Wolves when there was plenty other more interesting games to choose from, not least the planners could have taken a chance on Hull with home advantage perhaps knocking us out.
It’s the nature of the beast I’m afraid, but still very annoying. I don’t even make an effort with the big 4 fanzine ’football focus’ these days. COYB.
Give him his due, when he realised what a special little boy he had, he decked me out in Everton kit and wallpapered my room with EFC and went out and bought me an Everton duvet... ah the memories!
COYB today!!
I’ve always been a blue and I didn’t need my dad taking me to games to convince me. I was in love with Everton well before my first match. They are my family team and I will always spend hundreds of pounds on season tickets and shirts. Sadly, I think less children are feeling that way about their local teams nowadays and see football as a brand which they collect different kits for.
The computer manufacturers get carried away and will have the big money signings as superstars with the best stats. The likes of Lescotte and Barry will suddenly become twice as good as they were on last year's game just because they have gone for big money.
Young kids playing their mates will want to win and have the best team and so they will pick the team with the 5 star rating, no doubt Chelsea and probably even Man City will have the best stats in the newest editions of the games, if he didn't even know the name of Man City then it is likely he is playing Pro Evo Soccer because I don't think they have the rights to have the real names of the teams on the game.
The kids are too young to realise that just because a team looks good on paper, that doesn't mean that they are a good team in real life.
Both clubs did an open-top bus tour of the city on the same day — must have been 1984 — so I’d have been 3! We booed Liverpool and cheered Everton! It’s really hazy this... I’ve no idea where we watched them but based on what I think it looked like it must have been Camp Hill.
Can anyone confim this / rejog my memory. Did they do the tours on the same day in ’84 ... and did it go through Camp Hill?
a) They’re wools
b) They’re from families who aren’t really into football
Anyone can have an Everton trackie or kit — doesn’t necessarily make them a supporter (there are lots of kids who have Milan, Inter trackies etc.)
My parents are from Cheshire. When I eventually got into football, I supported Everton in the 85 Cup Final because my late grandfather was a succesful Man City player and my dad was a Man U supporter. My brother went from supporting Liverpool, to Tottenham to Man City and my two younger half brothers support Newcastle and Fulham.
I expect my dad might enjoy the football more if one of his 4 sons supported Man U but he’s happy that we all love the game and he gives us much banter as all 4 of us :)
How cool is she ...
I started out my life, god forbid, as a supporter of Liverpool... sorry, dad, I mean the Shite. My dad came from a strong blue heritage, he was an Evertonian as was his dad, he even attended Gwladys St Primary School. I was born and, as you can imagine, he wanted to pass on his love for the Blues but unfortunately came unstuck.
With complete respect and admiration, I can say that he not only allowed this insult to play out before his very eyes but also encouraged it, and I know now that he did not worry that my ’blue blood’ would one day out. He took me to Anfield, dressed in a Liverpool strip, holding my hand and no doubt having a little giggle to himself inside at the thought that this was somewhere I would one day come to detest.
Then, one day after my grandad being quite un-well for a long period of time, he asked me if I would attend a game at Goodison Park with them. I went... and well, the rest is history.
I shouted from start until the finish, with some of the older Evertonians whispering words of encouragement and telling me the things to shout, the look of pride beaming from their faces even though I wasn’t their son but you see, I was, well maybe not 'son' but certainly extended family.
This is the point, we are a family and I felt right at home straight away. The first thing I did when I got home was to bin my Liverpool kit, much to my mum's obvious consternation (my dad was smiling and telling her it was the right thing for me to do) and I was marching around the house singing as much as my horse little voice would allow.
I know for definite that we truly are born... so a word for John Dyvbad, no matter what age the little boy is, if he says he loves the blues then you can bet your bollocks that he means it, 100%.
COYB’s
John Dybvard - bollocks mate. I was a blue from birth and expect my kids to be so too. My lads favourite player is Fellaini, he ain’t mine and I actually like the away kit, sadly enough. So clearly my son wasn’t parroting me.
Mark Stone — it was 85-86. It was after the shite did the double over us and it was pre-arrranged beforehand. Reidy wouldn’t go on it as he was so pissed off. I actually also had to travel back from Wembley that year with a load of gobshites and that was pure hell.
Andrew McLean — I suggest that your family get mental help mate!!
The youngest one supports Chelsea and Brazil — the first because his school mates do and the second cos he has their kit from a holiday.
The middle lad is a madder blue than I am. He’s 10 and plays football very well. All his mates are Chelsea, Man U or RS but he was chosen, after a brief flirtation with Panathanaikos (see Brazil kit above) when he was around 6. I told him he could support any team he liked but would have to sleep in the shed if he chose the RS but he never even paused to think about it. He is proud to be blue and knows more about the team than I do (apart from ridiculously claiming that Cahill should be dropped for Fellaini, humph!).
We live in West Sussex so the tempation to support "more successful" teams is there but he is a real Blue and, I’m confident, always will be!
My family weren’t football people at all though and the only reason my dad bought the blue strip instead of the red one was cos he liked the blue better!! Lucky escape or wot!!
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