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I was talking to a guy who came into my workplace and he was telling me that a number of years ago he was a teacher at West Ham Utd. Apparently the idea was that a number of troubled kids were actually taught at the club.
On occasion a first team player might drop in to offer encouragement. It seems that the scheme was quite successful although I'm unsure if it still continues. Does anyone know if Everton operate such a scheme and do you believe it is a good idea?
A couple of mates take the view that is rewarding bad behaviour. However to me it seems worth a try. What do you think?
Andy Crooks, Posted 17/10/2012 at 14:20:09
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881 Posted 17/10/2012 at 16:38:27
883 Posted 17/10/2012 at 16:55:21
A footballer offers them encouragement by making them feel special, that they matter and that someone cares about them, even a famous, rich footballer off the telly, when much of their life may have given them the opposite impression.
Its not an exact science, and it may well ultimately be rewarding bad behaviour, but not in a way that would make anyone want to swap positions with a kid whose life may a combination of desperate circumstances way beyond their own control.
884 Posted 17/10/2012 at 17:46:19
885 Posted 17/10/2012 at 18:09:08
886 Posted 17/10/2012 at 18:27:21
890 Posted 17/10/2012 at 18:45:53
894 Posted 17/10/2012 at 19:24:14
896 Posted 17/10/2012 at 19:55:34
The player themselves wouldn't have to do much, just act like the kid mattered in his life for 20 mins or an hour or whatever. Psychologists could probably explain a lot better, but the idea that someone famous (or more accurately 'significant') looks you in the eye and you are significant to them, however briefly, can have a lasting impression, especially on those who see themselves as insignificant. Its what good politicians are (or used to be) good at. Apparently its what Princess Diana was good at too.
897 Posted 17/10/2012 at 19:55:28
928 Posted 18/10/2012 at 09:51:08
Imagine John Terry and Ashley Cole mentoring troubled kids! Troubled kids are not usually stupid. On the contrary they are usually very streetwise and have a very high level of albeit corrupted independence. They have often dragged themselves through childhood in the absence of good enough parenting and gain their role models from elsewhere. Role modelling footballers is not necessarily a good idea as no matter how much they may be 'worshipped' even troubled kids will see them for what a lot of them are. Overpaid prima-donnas who experience a lifestyle that these kids could never aspire to for actually not working all that hard, certainly not hard enough to warrant thousands of pounds a week! Sums of money that these kids could only attain through crime unless they won the lottery.
There are not many Bobby Moores about these days and when Alan Sugar said a few years ago after his stint at Spurs that most of the players he knew should be in jail and probably would be if they weren't footballers, it was not entirely tongue in cheek.
If you had a troubled kid would you want him or her to be in any way influenced by Stevie GBH? No thanks, it needs more care than that.
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871 Posted 17/10/2012 at 14:53:33
I'm not going to comment on whether I believe the Free School is a good idea. I think there has already been a relatively heated thread on that topic?